There were my grandparents in the dream ( they passed away in reality) I went shopping on a motorbike with little Bo, my eldest son. The whole family goes to the pharmacy. It's raining. I open Bo's backpack, there's Bo's raincoat. I put on the children's raincoat. Meet Mi, ex-husband's younger sister. I give Mi a piece of paper, in which there is the history of my ex-husband's family. There stories, their lives, their traumas. Mi hands it back to me. She draw by pencil. There are symbols written in pencil, the words Infinity and Lively Oh, the husband's family, life
Dreams involving deceased loved ones, particularly grandparents, often symbolize a connection to your roots and a desire for guidance or wisdom from previous generations. The presence of your grandparents in the dream suggests that you may be seeking comfort or advice as you navigate your current life situation, especially regarding family dynamics and personal history.
Riding a motorbike with your eldest son, Bo, signifies freedom and a sense of adventure, suggesting that you are embracing change or a new chapter in your life. The motorbike can be interpreted as a symbol of independence and the ability to steer your own path, with your son representing the new generation and the family legacy you are nurturing. The rain adds a layer of emotional depth; it can symbolize cleansing, renewal, or even feelings of melancholy. It may indicate that you are processing past memories or emotions related to your family.
When you open Bo’s backpack and find his raincoat, it signifies preparedness and the protective nature you have over your children. Putting on the children's raincoat may reflect your desire to shield your son from life's adversities, perhaps while also recognizing the need for nurturing at this stage in his life. It may also denote a sense of returning to a more innocent or playful state, reminiscent of childhood.
Meeting Mi, your ex-husband's younger sister, may symbolize unresolved issues or feelings related to your past marriage and family. Handing her the piece of paper that includes the history of your ex-husband’s family indicates a desire to share burdens and perhaps a need for reconciliation with that part of your life. This action may reflect an attempt to make sense of your past experiences and the traumas that have shaped both your life and the lives of others.
Mi returning the paper with symbols drawn in pencil—particularly emphasizing “Infinity” and “Lively”—is significant. The symbol of infinity can suggest continuity and the cyclical nature of life, perhaps alluding to the idea that family legacies, both good and bad, live on. The term “Lively” invokes a sense of energy and positivity, indicating that despite previous traumas, there’s hope and vibrancy in the present and future. This may suggest that you are beginning to view your past with a more positive perspective, and you are ready to infuse your family story with new meaning.
Overall, your dream reflects a rich tapestry of family connections—past and present. It explores themes of legacy, emotional connections, and healing from past traumas. It invites you to embrace your family's history while navigating your current path with a sense of hope and renewal. As you wake from this dream, consider how these elements resonate with your waking life and the ways in which they may guide your decisions going forward, especially as you nurture both your son and your own emotional journey.